If you’re anything like me — juggling life, business, and your own inner transformation — you’ve probably felt something shifting lately. I want to share a little insight that has helped me enormously on this journey:
Leadership isn’t just about guiding others. It begins with leading yourself
And that self-leadership? It starts in your mind — with your thoughts, your self-talk, your assumptions. Every quiet word you say to yourself matters. Every belief you carry shapes your path forward.
Right now, we’re witnessing a powerful shift in collective energy. We’re moving away from the old masculine “cross of planning” into the more intuitive, soul-led “cross of the sleeping phoenix.” The energy of feminine leadership is rising — you can feel it in your bones, can’t you?
It’s especially present in our generation. So many Gen X women are navigating the rites of menopause, and with it comes a deeper transformation. There’s this inner voice whispering (or maybe shouting): it’s time. Time to share your wisdom, time to rise, time to reclaim your voice.
In the midst of a world that feels torn by violence, hunger, and division, there’s also something beautiful blooming: a quiet revolution. Women lifting each other. Women healing. Women rising. Together.
But the first step? It starts at home — within. Learning to be gentler with yourself. Picking yourself up when you fall. Forgiving yourself, loving yourself, and shaking off all those toxic beliefs that have been spoon-fed to us for decades.
Because let’s be real — the system was never designed for us to thrive. Capitalism thrives on telling us we’re not enough, that we need to buy more, be more, do more. But this is exactly how women are kept small.
No more
Your thoughts shape your emotions, and those emotions drive your actions. When we become conscious of this cycle, we can reclaim our power — and write a new story.
It’s a privilege to be living in this time — witnessing women, one by one, reclaiming their light. Standing up not just for themselves, but for one another. But my heart also aches for the women still dimming their shine. For the ones staying small, staying quiet, staying in relationships or roles that stifle them — because they simply can’t afford not to.
Can we imagine a world where every woman has the choice to be free?
I believe each of us has a mission — a soul contract — to co-create a better society. I’ve chosen Human Design as one of my favourite tools on this path because it shows you, in such a loving and visual way, that you are meant to be different. That you’re not broken — you’re brilliantly, beautifully unique. And that’s exactly what we need.
Coaching with Human Design is like handing someone their own permission slip to stop trying to fit in — and start becoming more of who they truly are.
This is how we rise. This is how we lead. And I’ll be here, cheering you on, for as long as I’m on this wild, magical planet.
With love and belief in your light,
Sharonah x
Want to explore your own path through Human Design and feminine leadership?
I work with purpose-led women ready to break free from societal moulds and lead from the inside out. Whether you're navigating midlife, menopause, or simply ready for your next chapter, you’re not alone — and your unique design holds the answers.
